The Gift of Owning Your Desire in the Current Dating Landscape

In this short video from the February 2019 Spiritual Intimacy and Yogic Sexuality workshop at the DEN Meditation Center in Los Angeles, CA, John speaks to the current dating landscape and how a feminine owning and expressing her desire to be loved is a truly magnetic force.

You'll learn:

- We're at a place for the first time in history in which we don't need each other, so we have to ask ourselves the difficult question, "Why would somebody want to be in relationship with me at all? What are the gifts that I bring?"

- If you hold steady to giving those gifts, you will work through your relationship karma and attract a higher caliber of partner to meet you.

- One of the keys to that for the feminine is owning desire because the hunger of the feminine heart is magnetic.

- Part of what will call forth the deepest masculine in your world is living in the yearning to be loved. That is very hard to do, but very powerful (and attractive!).

- In order to own your desire, bring it into your daily practice - write about desire, dress in such a way that expresses your deepest desire, design your bedroom to reflect your hunger to be ravished and cherished, etc. Make desire your "drala;" your environment.

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