Mistakes You Must Not Make During The No Contact Rule
Using the private Facebook Group, there were patterns and 5 clear mistakes that clients were making when trying to get their ex back
Mistake #1 - Don’t delete them off social media
If you delete them how are they going to know about all the amazing things you’re doing in your life. If they have no way of seeing how you’ve changed then they’re not going to change their mind on their opinion of you
Mistake #2 - Don’t confide in their friends or family
They are always going to side with your ex, information can get to him that you don’t really want to get to him
Mistake #3 - Don’t obsess over their social media or stalk them
Researchers have consistently found that going through a break up is similar to going through a withdrawal symptom that an addict is when they stop using drugs.
Mistake #4 – Don’t talk to your ex to your friends (had multiple situations where the friend reaches out to ex without permission)
They’re not as supportive as you might thing, tell you not to follow there no contact rule or ask you why would you want an ex back. Not to forget that your friend can go to your ex and talk about what you’re going through and saying
Mistake #5 – Only focusing on him and his interest
Conversations and simple thoughts, if you’re only thinking about your ex interest and thoughts. You’re not going to do the work to appear attractive and Ungettable to your ex. the Ungettable Guy or Girl does not obsess about what the ex is doing, the Ungettable is not afraid to walk away from her ex for good.
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